How To Give An Erotic Massage

How To Give An Erotic Massage

Andrew wrote on 2008 February, 22
Giving someone an erotic massage can help you get laid. It assists in making the other person relaxed – and even more uninhibited. Here’s a quick lesson on erotic massage, from beginning to happy ending


Prior to giving someone an erotic massage, prepare the setting. Turn off the ringers on both the cell phones and landlines, close the windows and drapes, and make sure the temperature’s just right. Darken the room enough so that it’s a relaxing atmosphere. Play soft music for a calming effect. Throw an old sheet over the bed so you won’t stain your everyday sheets with massage oils (most of them will stain).

Getting Started

Once your partner is comfortably situated, feel free to wrap fresh warm towels around the areas you won’t be focusing on. Using the tips of your fingers, lightly stroke your partner’s back, shoulders, arms, butt, thighs and calves. Ask them if the touches and temperature of the room are okay. Next, pour about two tablespoons of massage oil into the palm of your hand and rub your hands together vigorously for about 10 seconds to warm up. Rub your partner’s back with long, deep strokes, and then move on to the other body parts (not privates…yet).

Getting It Hot

Now ask your partner to turn over. Make sure they’re comfortable. Start by massaging their chest, arms, and hands. Then focus on their legs and feet. Don’t forget to ask if the touches are okay. As you glide your hands up and down the legs, gently brush over the genitals. You can also tease your partner by rubbing their inner thighs, just near their private area. When you feel the time is right, focus solely on the genitalia.


For Males

To enhance the experience for men, slow down or move to a different region if the guy’s about to ejaculate. If he’s on the brink, he should give you a signal or code word so you can switch it up. The longer he can go without a release, the stronger the orgasm (however if he wants a quick release, tell him knock himself out).


For Females

Remember that it usually takes women longer to become aroused. So don’t forget to focus on all areas of the vulva, including the clitoris and G-Spot. The aid of a vibrator could also be quite useful.


Enhancing Erotic Massage

For added excitement to an erotic massage, whisper erotic thoughts or fantasies into your partner’s ear either during the initial massage, the genital stage, or both. Nibbling on your partner’s ear, kissing their neck, and draping your hair over their body are also great ways to get them going. Another twist is to eventually climb on top of them. Or if you want to roleplay, pretend that you guys are “massage therapist” and “client.”

And that in a nutshell is how to give an outrageously mind-blowing erotic massage. Have fun cleaning up afterwards!

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