How To Fantasize

How To Fantasize

Andrew wrote on 2008 February, 22

Fantasizing is a wonderful way to enjoy your “me” time, especially if you know exactly how to please yourself. It’s also a fantastic way to either enhance sex or substitute it when you don’t have a fuck buddy. For the ultimate in self-release, follow these guidelines.

Ready, Set

First, block out time to fantasize so you don’t feel rushed: an hour or so is ideal. Now make sure the atmosphere is just right: adjust the temperature of the room to a comfortable setting, close the windows and doors to block out noise, turn off the TV, put your phone on silent mode, use soft lighting and music and make sure your room is clutter-free.


You can get started by taking off your clothing, or how much ever clothing you wish. Lie down, focus on your breathing, and clear your mind. If it helps you relax, start to caress and massage your body (including your privates if you wish). Now start to think of a scenario, activity or fetish that excites you. Go ahead, don’t be embarrassed. The beauty of fantasizing is that anything can happen in your mind. The more you let yourself go and develop a fantasy, the better the experience you will have.

Go Further
As you build your fantasy; make it as real as possible. What do you see? What are you hearing, feeling, tasting, and smelling? Who are you envisioning and what are they wearing or not wearing? If you are having trouble coming up with a fantasy, here are some examples to help get you started: sleeping with your best friend’s girlfriend, office sex with a cute co-worker or fucking a pro team cheerleader in front of the entire stadium. Feel free to enhance the experience by watching erotic videos or looking at sexy images – be creative and use that imagination! When you are ready, pleasure yourself to climax with the aid of hand lotion, baby oil or any safe lubricant.

The Afterglow 

After that big finish, take your time with getting back to reality. Close your eyes and relax for as long as you wish. Take deep breaths. Slowly rise to clean up only when you are ready.

Congratulations, you just had a mind-blowing fantasy session! The most important thing to remember about fantasizing is to use your biggest sex organ of all: your brain.

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